Evelyn Carter
Submitted by Anne-Frances Hayes, Equalities Representative
Evelyn Carter, my nan, was born in Sheffield in 1911 and raised in desperate poverty. Influenced by her dad, a lifelong socialist, Evelyn fought inequality throughout her life, both personally and as a Labour Party supporter, trade union member and activist.
In late middle age, circumstances meant Evelyn had to foster me and my two sisters. In the 1960s/70s, gender roles were strictly defined, and men didn't share the parenting role as they do now. Our arrival therefore, changed Evelyn’s life completely. She had to give up her job and concentrate on raising us full time.
In those days, coming from (what was referred to as) a ‘broken home’ was considered a huge stigma, and by necessity, Evelyn took on a school system and a wider society that discriminated against us.
Being of the pre-war generation, Evelyn had witnessed at first hand the struggles that ordinary people went through before the formation of the welfare state. She instilled in me a lifelong respect and gratitude for post war socialist governments that brought so many benefits for the working class.
Whilst circumstances at home curtailed Evelyn's activism, she continued to support the Labour movement, attending marches, pickets (for the steelworkers) and helping Labour candidates during campaigns - always with me and at least one other of my sisters in tow. It made me realise that it's not only the big successes that matter in our movement, but that little acts of solidarity can do so much.
Evelyn is my constant inspiration because, whilst the financial, emotional and mental sacrifices she made to raise me were monumental, she never showed it. I later learned she suffered from severe depression and anxiety, and that some days just getting up and out of bed was an act of absolute bravery.
I admire and respect the the level of selfless dedication she showed us. If not for her, me and my sisters' lives could have turned out very differently.
Whenever I feel nervous or stressed in everyday life, I think of Evelyn, and her shining example sees me through.
- Anne-Frances Hayes